On a knife-edge: Looking for the right distance in work with children on the autism spectrumBook tickets
Frances Tustin Memorial Trust
Abstract: Frances Tustin repeatedly emphasized how hard it could be for children on the autism spectrum to integrate hard and soft, which she saw as the forerunners of male and female. In this paper, I consider the issue of finding the right distance in psychoanalytic work with these children: I suggest that, like borderline patients, they are caught between the fear of being pushed off the caregiver into space, on the one hand, and of being engulfed, on the other.
This ‘claustrophobic-agoraphobic dilemma’ (Henri Rey) is discussed with regard to factors in the caregiver; to the child’s phantasies concerning the caregiver’s internal figures; and to consequences of autistic children’s heightened sensitivity to the state of mind of other people. The paternal function as the mediator of distance between mother and child is explored in relation to the ‘bisexuality of the container’ (Houzel) and the clinician’s mental positioning as a parental couple, along with implications for the phrasing of comments.
A vignette illustrates the importance of the clinician’s individual identity and private associations in allowing the child to feel seen without being engulfed, and to show capacities that might otherwise be kept hidden.
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